“When you get to a place where you understand that love and belonging, your worthiness, is a birthright and not something you have to earn, anything is possible.
Your raise can be on the table, your promotion can be on the table, your title can be on the table, your grades can be on the table. But keep your worthiness for love and belonging off the table. And then ironically everything else just takes care of itself.”
“Be brave and vulnerable.”
“You can’t raise children who have more shame resilience than you do. Because even if you don’t shame them, and even if you are actively trying to raise them feeling good about who they are, they’re never going to treat themselves better than you treat yourself. If you want to raise a daughter with a really healthy body image, you better love your body as a mother, because that counts way more than looking at your daughter and saying “You’re beautiful and your body is beautiful.” All that matters to her is how she sees you acting with your own body. We can’t give children what we don’t have. We have to be the adults we hope they grow up to be.”
“Connection is why we're here. It's what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.”
“ Vulnerability is the core of shame and fear and our struggle for worthiness, but it is also the birthplace of joy, of creativity, of belonging, and of love.”
“Vulnerability is not weakness.”
“Vulnerability is emotional risk, exposure, uncertainty. It's our most accurate measurement of courage.”
“Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity, and change.”
We have to talk about shame.
Shame is an epidemic in our courage.
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Friday, March 22, 2013
Quote: Theodore Roosevelt
“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasm; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly.”
— Theodore Roosevelt
— Theodore Roosevelt
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
The Psychology of Evil
He speaks really fast, but it's worthwhile to stay with him.
More about the talk by Mr. Zimbardo is at this link.
Quote: Don Miguel Ruiz
“(This) is why humans resist life. To be alive is the biggest fear humans have. Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive—the risk to be alive and express what we really are. Just being ourself is the biggest fear of humans. We have learned to live our life trying to satisfy other people's demands. We have learned to live our life trying to satisfy other people's point of view because of the fear of not being accepted and of not being good enough for someone else.”
Don Miguel Ruiz
The Four Agreements
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Quote: Marc Chernoff
“Making money is pretty easy. Attaining true wealth is not. Most people have jobs and bring in an income. What’s difficult is to earn it by doing something that makes a positive difference.
Knowing deep down that you counted; that someone else’s life is not as rich without you in it —that’s priceless. That’s something worth working for.”
- Marc Chernoff
Friday, March 15, 2013
Tuesday, March 05, 2013
This isn't about equal rights on paper.
This isn't just about not getting fired or seeing our partner in the hospital or marriage or adoption. This is about not getting our head bashed in to the pavement.
A witness at the scene with her two teenaged sisters says the violent actions of the officers involved left her younger siblings seriously traumatised. “They were crying while the police bashed the boy’s head into the cement,” she said. “It was horrible, disgusting behaviour.”
Another witness adds: “They picked him up by the throat and slammed him into the ground with his head hitting the ground that hard it sounded like a bowling ball hitting the ground,” she said. “This was while he was in handcuffs.” - From the news site Same Same.
This video is quite violent. If you aren't disturbed by it have someone check you for a pulse.
Monday, March 04, 2013
Sunday, March 03, 2013
What happens when a neuroscientist gets to experience a stroke from the inside out.
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